1/5 Dana F. 1 year ago on Google
I
know
it's
easy
to
discount
really
bad
reviews,
but
I
am
not
someone
who
typically
takes
the
time
to
write
such
things
and
felt
I
had
to
in
this
case.
TLDR:
Terrible
communication,
needlessly
drawn
out
process,
had
to
beg
for
responses,
fatphobic,
and
had
a
much
better
experience
when
I
switched
clinics
and
went
to
Columbia
Fertility
Associates
in
DC.
My
sense
is
that
SGF
has
expanded
way
faster
than
they
can
keep
up
with.
I
don't
think
the
staff
or
doctors
are
bad
people
or
anything,
but
my
experience
was
inexcusable
--
especially
when
you
consider
the
price
tag!
Headline
here
is
-
they
weighed
me
in
November,
I
did
a
bunch
of
bloodwork/other
appointments
for
months
and
kept
asking
when
we'd
schedule
egg
retrieval.
Nothing,
nothing,
no
news,
no
information,
no
timeline,
despite
multiple
asks.
Eventually,
they
call
me
at
the
end
of
FEBRUARY
and
say
"your
BMI
is
too
high
to
do
an
egg
retrieval,
our
anesthesiologists
won't
do
it."
I
called
them
losing
my
mind.
To
his
credit,
doctor
did
call
me
back
--
but
only
to
entirely
minimize
my
frustration,
saying
it's
"only
30-40
pounds"
and
that
weight
loss
is
"in
my
best
interest
anyways."
Since
I
am
not
the
fattest
person
to
ever
get
surgery
in
the
world,
I
asked
if
there
are
ways
to
accommodate
this
(hospital
setting?
different
kind
of
anesthesia?)
and
it
was
a
total
non-starter.
So,
if
I
agree
to
prioritize
this
weight
loss
(on
top
of
managing
the
debilitating
medical
condition
requiring
me
to
seek
IVF
in
the
first
place,
mind
you),
when
can
I
meet
with
their
nutritionist?
Oh,
APRIL
is
first
available.
Even
if
you
think
a
BMI
cut-off
is
absolutely
reasonable
(which,
sure,
they
are
allowed
to
have
one,
but
I
don't
think
it's
right
--
I
think
they
should
treat
the
person
in
front
of
them
as
they
are,
not
the
person
they'd
like
to
treat,
and
that
the
more
we
learn
about
BMI,
the
less
legitimate
a
measure
of
anything
it
seems
to
be),
there
is
ZERO
excuse
for
not
flagging
this
one
Day
One
instead
of
months
in.
By
the
time
you're
working
with
an
IVF
clinic,
you
feel
some
sense
of
urgency.
Not
only
did
they
not
take
responsibility
for
delaying
my
journey,
but
they
essentially
shamed
me
and
didn't
seem
to
get
that
losing
30-40
pounds
(for
anyone,
but
especially
someone
who
has
limited
mobility,
which
is
why
I
am
doing
IVF
in
the
first
place)
is
a
real
and
significant
challenge
that
would
add
months
to
anyone's
timeline.
At
the
risk
of
sounding
dramatic,
I
can't
even
describe
how
terrible
it
feels
as
a
fat
person
with
health
issues
who
is
trying
everything
to
move
my
life
forward
to
basically
get
told
"don't
reproduce
until
you
lose
some
weight."
Fat
women
have
babies
all
the
time.
What
a
cluster.
I
ended
up
switching
to
Columbia
Fertility
Associates,
where
I
had
zero
of
these
problems
and
created
4
healthy
embryos
within
6
weeks
of
my
first
appointment.
No
issues
with
anesthesia.
Fat
babes,
you
don't
have
to
take
this.
Also,
at
every
point
in
this
(even
after
switching
clinics!),
getting
a
response
was
ridiculous.
You
have
to
go
through
the
portal
and,
unless
you're
responding
to
someone
specific,
it
won't
get
sent
to
the
right
person.
When
we
did
switch,
transferring
my
partner's
sperm
from
SGF
to
Columbia
was
INSANE
and
required
so
much
follow
up
and
nagging
from
our
part.
Everyone
I
know
who
has
used
SGF
has
been
somewhere
between
frustrated
to
livid
about
how
hard
it
is
to
get
care/attention.
Their
rates
are
good,
but
is
that
because
they
are
screening
people
out
who
have
any
sort
of
higher
risk?
I
don't
know.
I
can
only
speak
to
my
experience,
and
it
was
terrible.
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