1/5 Indyan R. 5 months ago on Google • 1 review
Not
worthy
of
a
star.
Bad
attitude
and
unprofessional
behavior.
I
was
treated
at
De
Hoop
Online
a
few
months
ago.
Therapy
is
built
on
the
Christian
faith
in
a
way
that
I
did
not
expect
as
a
Christian.
If
you
come
from
a
family
with
a
parent
or
parents
with
narcissistic
traits,
do
not
seek
help
here.
According
to
the
therapist
I
had,
every
parent
loves
his/her
children
and
that
people
can
have
behaviors
that
look
like
not
loving,
but
still
love
you.
Through
previous
therapy
I
learned
to
accept
and
let
go,
because
it
cost
me
too
much
energy.
I
distanced
myself
from
my
parents
and
the
rest
of
the
family,
because
it
was
no
longer
possible
for
me,
(destructive)
now
I
finally
have
peace
without
them.
I
felt
that
the
therapist
listened
poorly
and
I
felt
neither
heard
nor
respected
in
the
choice
I
had
made
by
distancing
myself.
He
seemed
to
be
trying
to
impose
his
opinion
and
push
me
in
a
direction
I
didn't
want:
going
back
to
my
toxic
family.
I
had
to
forgive
(as
Jesus
says
in
the
Bible).
As
a
client
I
felt
I
had
to
defend
myself
against
him
and
this
is
not
appropriate.
He
said
he
didn't
know
my
family,
so?
Should
that
be
the
case,
as
if
I
seemed
unbelievable
to
him
about
my
family.
As
a
therapist
you
are
supposed
to
trust
what
I
tell
you
to
be
true.
So
I
didn't
want
to
continue
with
him,
because
it
made
me
feel
worse.
After
a
final
consultation
with
him,
I
would
get
another
therapist
and
preferred
a
woman
and
this
was
arranged.
Then
he
calls
me
out
of
the
blue
to
say
that
he
had
found
someone
else
who
knows
narcissism.
I
indicated
that
I
would
prefer
a
woman
(I
had
an
appointment
with
her
that
he
had
made
with
me)
because
the
person
he
now
mentioned
was
a
man.
He
said
he
knows
that,
but
wanted
me
to
have
a
conversation
with
this
man
to
see
if
it
was
something
for
me,
he
wanted
me
to
get
good
help
and
this
man
had
knowledge
of
narcissism.
So
agreed,
but
because
of
this
the
female
person
canceled
my
appointment
with
her,
even
though
this
had
not
been
agreed.
I
emailed
her
about
this
and
according
to
her,
the
appointment
I
had
with
the
other
man
had
to
be
before
the
conversation
with
her
and
not
after,
she
preferred
that
and
that
is
why
she
canceled
my
appointment
with
her
and
I
started
over.
had
to
deal
with
that
man
and
if
things
didn't
go
well
I
could
make
an
appointment
with
her,
even
though
it
was
only
1
day
apart,
July
6/7.
(Very
strange)
I
also
called
the
therapist
and
said
that
we
had
not
agreed
on
that.
He
was
going
to
talk
to
her
during
a
meeting
they
had.
I
had
now
completely
lost
confidence
and
stopped
the
treatment.
It's
sad
that
a
Christian
institution
treats
people
this
way,
if
you
want
to
build
therapy
on
Jesus
then
do
it
right,
but
not
like
this.
Look
more
at
people,
where
they
are,
what
they
want
and
where
they
want
to
go
to
guide
them
properly.
What
you
as
a
therapist
think,
think
or
want
is
not
the
most
important
thing.
I
didn't
have
the
feeling
that
I
was
seen
as
a
person
for
who
I
am
and
what
I
went
through,
no,
I
had
to
do
it
all
and
see
it
the
way
the
therapist
wanted,
because
he
knows
best.
He
didn't
even
feel
like
a
therapist,
but
like
someone
without
knowledge.
He
even
forgot
an
appointment
with
me
because
he
didn't
put
it
in
the
agenda.
They
prefer
to
ignore
your
problem
and
what
they
think
or
feel
seems
more
important
than
what
the
client
wants,
feels
or
needs.
And
these
are
people
who
are
my
brothers
and
sisters
in
the
Christian
faith.
I'm
still
amazed
at
how
it
all
went.
As
a
tip
for
mental
health
care
provider
De
Hoop:
find
out
what
damage
people
with
narcissistic
traits
can
do
to
others.
Both
mothers
and
fathers
and
sisters/brothers,
etc.
It
destroys
you.
Then
don't
tell
your
clients
that
they
have
to
get
back
in
touch
because
they
miss
loving
family
members
and
maybe
you
should
have
chosen
a
different
profession,
because
sometimes
recovery
is
impossible!!!
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