1/5 Al C. 9 months ago on Google
I
thought
this
gym
would
be
a
safe
space
but
I
quickly
learned
it
wasnāt.
It
promotes
inclusivity
and
community
but
if
thereās
any
prejudice
against
you
,
you
will
be
labeled
and
they
will
refuse
your
membership.
I
canāt
respond
to
the
response
But
I
guess
by
saying
you
donāt
want
to
air
out
specifics
and
then
aired
the
issue
that
speaks
to
your
character.
Hereās
what
happened:
My
friend
moved
back
to
Nola
so
her
and
I
started
workout
out
last
week
and
thereās
this
gym
thatās
super
body
inclusive
and
queer
inclusive
and
community
based.
Bet.
I
knew
my
exs
went
there
but
I
havenāt
dated
them
in
years
so
I
didnāt
think
it
would
be
an
issue.
so
we
go
and
love
it.
I
tell
everyone
that
breathes
that
this
place
made
me
feel
so
excited
to
workout
Well
yesterday
I
get
a
call
from
the
owner
that
they
arenāt
going
to
allow
me
to
join
because
my
ex
reached
out
to
them
and
they
donāt
even
know
how
my
ex
found
out
I
was
even
attending
but
that
uncomfortable
with
me
joining.
That
I
needed
to
reach
out
to
my
ex..
When
I
talked
to
my
ex
she
told
me
that
her
and
the
owner
are
friends
and
that
the
owner
had
called
her
to
tell
her
I
was
taking
afternoon
classes
and
was
interested
in
joining
that
she
knows
my
past
and
asked
her
what
she
thought.
My
ex
said
she
ādidnāt
love
me
attendingā
because
I
didnāt
call
and
ask
her.
And
that
the
owner
was
like
okay
fine
she
wonāt
come.
They
are
saying
that
they
asked
me
to
take
accountability
for
the
harm
Iāve
done.
Thatās
a
big
word!
Never
one
was
I
asked
for
my
side,
my
harm.
I
guess
community
is
only
limited
to
the
ones
they
choose
to
be
community.
Never
once
did
my
ex
communicate
with
me.
Never
once
was
a
mediation
even
offered.
I
was
judged
and
juried
without
being
present
and
Iām
supposed
to
take
accountability.
Did
the
gym
that
says
they
offer
community
and
inclusivity
for
the
queer
community
take
a
pause
to
wonder
if
this
would
be
a
trigger?
Like
getting
denied
from
church
for
being
gay.
No
they
didnāt
care
they
cared
about
their
friend
and
choosing
who
gets
to
eat
at
the
popular
table.
Iām
sorry
that
my
character
is
writing
a
review
for
people
to
make
their
own
judgement
because
god
forbid
they
go
through
what
I
did.
Iāve
been
denied
from
straight
spaces
and
now
gay
ones
too.
Someday
I
hope
I
belong
somewhere
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