1/5 Haidee De J. 6 months ago on Google • 68 reviews
MY
LABOR
AND
DELIVERY
WAS
A
TRAUMATIZING
NIGHTMARE!
-
Before
delivery:
1am:
I
went
directly
to
the
maternity
ward
as
I
was
already
5
days
over
my
due
date
and
my
blood
pressure
was
high.
The
staff
explained
all
the
procedures
that
I
was
going
to
undergo
and
they
made
me
feel
safe.
They
decided
to
induce
me
because
I
wasn’t
dilating.
Everything
seemed
normal,
there
was
one
nurse
that
held
me
while
I
was
getting
my
epidural
and
was
wonder.
7pm:
After
shift
change,
I
noticed
my
nurse
was
less
attentive.
My
pain
button
wasn’t
working
and
I
couldn’t
reach
the
help
button
or
my
phone
because
I
couldn’t
move
my
legs,
at
this
moment
I
also
felt
wet
and
I
believed
I
was
going
into
labor,
finally
my
nurse
came
in
and
I
told
her
what
was
happening,
It
turned
out
my
baby
had
pooped
inside
of
me,
by
this
time
I
was
at
8
centimeters,
a
PA
came
in
checked
me
out
then
told
I
was
almost
ready
to
give
birth.
At
this
time
I
believed
I
was
in
good
hands
and
I
was
getting
ready
to
give
birth
naturally,
mainly
because
I
didn’t
notice
any
sense
of
urgency
from
the
staff.
-Delivery
time:
About
30
min
later,
one
of
the
nurses
comes
in
with
a
worried
look
in
her
face
and
mentions
that
she
couldn’t
get
the
baby’s
heart
rate.
5
minute
later
a
doctor
comes
in
my
room
with
an
entire
team
of
nurses
and
an
angry
look
in
her
face
as
if
someone
messed
up
and
told
me
they
were
performing
an
emergency
C-Section.
They
all
began
to
disconnect
me
from
all
machines
and
rushed
me
to
the
delivery
room.
At
this
time
they
also
rushed
my
boyfriend
to
change
into
surgical
attire.
I
was
then
taken
to
another
room,
undressed
completely
and
tossed
onto
a
table.
I
couldn’t
see
anything
that
was
being
done
to
me
because
they
put
a
huge
cloth
blocking
me
from
seeing
anything
from
the
neck
down.
The
only
person
I
was
able
to
see
was
the
anesthesiologist,
who
I
kept
telling
that
I
was
having
cardiac
arrest
symptoms.
He
completely
ignored
me.
This
procedure
took
minutes,
but
it
felt
like
hours,
I
could
hear
what
was
going
on,
but
had
no
idea
what
was
happening.
I
heard
a
faint
cry,
but
I
couldn’t
tell
if
it
was
my
baby
or
another
from
the
baby
ward.
I
gave
birth
to
a
healthy
baby
boy
yet
it
would
be
hours
before
they
even
showed
me
his
face.
At
this
point
I
didn’t
know
if
he
was
alive
because
no
one
told
me
what
was
going
on,
they
didn’t
even
allow
my
boyfriend
in
the
delivery
room.
I
was
ignored
and
feeling
completely
helpless,
heartbroken
and
all
I
could
do
was
cry.
-After
delivery:
After
they
had
stitched
me
up
and
cleaned
me
up
I
was
taken
to
some
sort
of
waiting
area
and
that’s
when
I
finally
got
to
see
my
boyfriend,
he
was
the
one
that
told
me
that
our
baby
was
fine
and
that
he
saw
him
briefly,
like
me
he
was
also
kept
in
the
dark
and
had
no
idea
what
was
happening.
A
few
minutes
after
a
nurse
brought
over
my
baby,
I
wanted
to
hold
him
so
bad,
but
I
was
afraid
to
as
I
could
hardly
move
do
to
all
the
drugs
I
was
given.
A
few
hours
passed,
then
someone
came
and
moved
me
to
another
room
which
was
under
labor
and
delivery.
When
I
woke
up
I
felt
hot,
extremely
thirsty,
and
couldn’t
move.
I
begged
the
night
nurse
for
water
and
she
said
I
couldn’t
have
any,
told
her
I
felt
hot,
she
said
if
was
due
to
the
meds
I
was
getting.
My
boyfriend
checked
the
air
conditioning
the
next
day
and
noticed
it
was
blowing
hot
air,
fyi
there
was
also
a
heat
wave
happening.
I
was
kept
in
that
same
dark
dinghy
room,
without
food,
same
bloody
sheets
for
two
days
before
a
good
and
kind
hearted
postpartum
nurse(RN
Gray)
and
her
supervisor
took
notice,
pulled
out
and
put
me
in
one
of
those
nice
rooms
that
they
advertise.
I
later
found
out
that
I
had
extreme
preeclampsia
the
whole
time
and
I
wasn’t
supposed
to
be
in
the
labor
and
delivery
area
longer
than
24hrs.
The
only
reason
I
chose
this
hospital
was
because
of
my
OBGYN,
Dr.
Maya
Munarova,
who
in
the
end
never
perform
my
delivery.
I
had
9
stitches
and
they
sent
me
home
with
Motrin
for
the
pain.
This
was
my
first
delivery
and
i
still
cry
telling
my
story
but
I
felt
strong
responsibility
to
warn
other
mothers.
37 people found this review helpful 👍