5/5 Ian T. 6 months ago on Google
The
passing
of
my
mom
has
been
the
single
most
tragic
thing
I've
ever
had
to
face.
Two
things
made
it
easier
to
deal
with.
1)
My
mom
had
made
her
wishes
known,
organized
in
binders,
and
had
pre-arrangements
with
Rose
Hills;
and
2)
the
Rose
Hills
staff.
I
was
a
sorry
mess
when
I
got
to
Rose
Hills,
only
2
days
after
my
mom
had
passed.
I
cannot
see
how
anyone
could
possibly
make
decisions
and
plan
for
a
funeral
while
still
in
shock.
But
my
mom
had
done
the
planning
for
me.
She
had
made
pre-arrangements
with
Rose
Hills.
She
had
her
casket
picked
out,
had
the
viewing
and
services
picked
out,
the
memory
book/folders/thank
you
cards
chosen...she
even
had
the
service
program
pretty
much
done!
And
it
was
already
paid
for.
All
I
had
to
do
was
provide
a
picture,
pick
dates,
write
an
obituary,
decide
on
what
the
graver
marker
would
say
(she
already
had
picked
out
the
type,
I
had
to
chose
the
design),
and
deliver
her
burial
clothes.
The
pre-paid
pre-arrangement
made
things
SO
much
easier
for
me
to
cope.
Rita,
our
counselor,
didn't
try
to
upsell
us
on
things
beyond
what
my
mom
had
prepaid
for,
but
was
helpful
when
I
inquired
on
upgrades,
like
having
my
mom's
picture
on
the
grave
marker
or
paying
extra
to
see
the
full
burial
(witness
her
casket
getting
buried)
as
per
my
mom's
written
request.
She
was
great
explaining
everything.
The
rest
of
the
staff
was
just
as
wonderful
as
they
could
be,
given
the
circumstances.
From
our
contact
person
during
the
viewing,
who
was
so
attentive
and
so
gentle
with
us,
to
the
musician
and
soloist,
to
the
cosmologist
who
made
my
mom
look
so
natural
&
pretty
and
worked
with
me
to
get
the
exact
hair
dye
my
mom
used,
to
the
funeral
director
who
kept
us
on
track
during
the
funeral
service.
Honestly,
much
of
everything
is
still
hazy
in
my
memory;
the
shock
made
me
nearly
unable
to
function.
That
is
why
I
truly
appreciate
the
staff
at
Rose
Hills.
They
got
me
through
my
most
difficult
time.
My
mom
made
so
many
good
decisions.
My
entire
family
has
pre-paid
pre-arrangements
through
Rose
Hills.
That
alone
will
take
much
of
the
burden
off
my
survivors.
I
just
need
to
carry
it
the
rest
of
the
way
and
put
my
wishes
into
a
binder
like
she
did...maybe
even
a
little
further
by
writing
up
the
obituary,
designing
the
grave
marker,
and
spelling
out
a
few
more
things
to
make
it
even
easier
for
whoever
is
handling
my
affairs.
I'm
confident
the
Rose
Hills
staff
will
attend
to
the
rest.