3/5 Jody M. 7 months ago on Google
I
was
diagnosed
with
cancer,
which
can
seem
like
the
end
of
the
world.
I
went
to
the
emergency
room
to
speed
up
the
process.
First
I’d
like
to
say
the
wonderful
person
in
the
ER
(Kitty)
was
an
angel.
You
meet
a
lot
of
great
people
at
UCSF,
and
a
lot
of
awful
people
at
UCSF.
The
first
surgeon
was
confused
about
who
I
was,
but
turned
out
to
be
a
man
of
honor.
Way
later
in
the
process
I
ended
up
with
an
awful
surgeon.
UCSF
is
a
good
place
to
go
for
health
issues,
just
make
sure
you
stop
and
breathe
during
the
process.
I
did
everything
I
was
told
to
do
to
survive,
but
honestly
I
should
have
said
no
many
times.
So
here’s
my
advice,
it’s
your
body,
and
only
you
have
to
live
with
the
decisions.
You
will
be
told
so
many
things,
by
so
many
people
that
you’ll
be
lost.
Stop,
take
as
many
deep
breaths
as
you
can,
then
ask
yourself
what
is
best
for
you.
UCSF
will
offer
you
procedures
without
filling
you
in
on
what
you’ll
have
to
live
with
once
they
are
done.
Take
the
time
at
each
step
to
review
how
the
procedures
will
permanently
affect
you.
Remember,
not
your
loved
ones,
or
UCSF
end
up
dealing
with
the
end
results.
So
breathe,
and
know
even
though
these
will
be
some
of
the
hardest
decisions
of
your
life,
you
must
trust
your
thoughts
more
than
everyone
else.
Wish
I
hadn’t
been
so
afraid
of
dying,
that
I
didn’t
consider
what
I
would
have
to
live
with.
My
heart
goes
out
to
you.
Now
start
talking
deep
breaths,
clear
out
all
the
outside
noises,
and
make
every
choice
from
this
moment
on
for
you.
Best
wishes
.P.S.
don’t
sign
important
release
forms
while
in
your
surgery
gown
staring
at
the
surgery
doors.
Trust
me
when
I
say,
at
that
moment
you
don’t
hear
a
word
anyone
is
saying.
That
is
one
thing
that
UCSF
does,
that
should
be
against
the
law.
J
McKenty
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