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TITLE:
DELIVER
YOUR
BABY
ANYWHERE
ELSE
BUT
EVERGREEN
Iâm
posting
on
behalf
of
my
daughter,
who
doesnât
want
her
name
associated
with
this
review.
These
are
her
words
about
her
experience
delivering
a
baby
at
Evergreen.
My
daughter
had
her
first
baby
at
Evergreen
hospital
in
February
2022.
She
was
8
days
overdue
when
they
called
her
to
come
in
and
be
induced.
If
she
were
to
have
another
baby,
she
would
not
deliver
at
Evergreen.
Here
is
why.
Her
pregnancy
was
difficult
because
of
her
OBGYN,
Dr.
Stemmerman.
Stemmermanâs
lack
of
empathy
and
non-explanations
of
my
daughterâs
questions
made
my
daughter
feel
like
she
didnât
care
about
her
outcomes
as
a
patient.
Stemmerman
didnât
read
the
notes
or
test
results
my
daughterâs
nurse
practitioner
had
done
early
in
her
pregnancy,
and
when
my
daughter
asked
about
her
test
results,
Stemmerman
belittled
her
nurse
practitioner,
saying
that
this
individual
always
orders
so
many
tests
(her
NP
and
Stemmerman
worked
together
years
before).
My
daughter
tested
positive
for
gestational
diabetes
and
Stemmerman
shared
the
results
through
the
patient
portal
â
a
standard
message
that
read
like
an
email
and
didnât
take
into
consideration
my
daughterâs
active
lifestyle
and
eating
habits.
Stemmermanâs
message
made
my
daughter
feel
embarrassed
to
have
gestational
diabetes,
as
if
it
was
her
fault.
Stemmerman
never
addressed
what
she
shared
in
that
message
during
in-person
appointments
with
my
daughter.
Dr.
Stemmerman
took
a
two-week
vacation
during
my
daughterâs
39
th
and
40
th
weeks
of
pregnancy,
and
joked
âdonât
go
into
labor!â
as
she
walked
out
of
my
daughterâs
last
appointment
before
her
vacation.
A
tech
completed
an
ultrasound
at
the
end
of
my
daughterâs
40
th
week
and
she
commented
on
how
long
my
sonâs
feet
were.
My
daughter
didnât
think
to
ask
how
big
her
baby
was
measuring,
but
the
doctors
should
have
known
his
size
by
the
ultrasound
results.
They
should
have
shared
the
results
with
her
prior
to
the
birth.
My
daughter
wanted
to
try
and
have
a
vaginal
delivery.
The
doctors
knew
this
and
let
her
try
and
have
a
vaginal
delivery.
If
my
daughter
had
known
her
sonâs
size
prior
to
going
to
the
hospital,
she
would
have
been
open
to
a
c-section.
My
daughter
went
into
the
hospital
at
41
weeks
and
they
started
Pitocin.
After
12
hours,
my
daughter
wasnât
feeling
any
contractions,
so
they
broke
her
water
and
continued
increasing
the
Pitocin.
By
that
night
(~24
hours
after
being
admitted
to
Evergreen),
she
was
dilated
10
cm
and
ready
to
push.
My
daughter
pushed
for
2
½
hours.
After
2
½
hours,
she
wasnât
feeling
her
son
at
all
and
was
labeled
a
failure
to
descend.
Soon
after,
her
son
was
delivered
by
c-section.
He
weighed
10
pounds,
10
ounces,
and
was
in
the
99
th
percentile
for
head
circumference,
weight,
and
length.
Why
didnât
the
doctors
at
Evergreen
tell
her
how
large
her
son
was
before
putting
her
through
all
of
that?
For
the
past
year,
she
has
been
trying
to
handle
the
trauma
she
experienced
by
herself.
She
didnât
realize
her
experience
wasnât
normal
until
after
she
spoke
with
friends
and
family.
A
friend
recently
had
a
baby
delivered
by
c-section
3
weeks
before
the
due
date
because
her
doctor
told
her
how
large
the
baby
was
measuring.
The
baby
weighed
7
pounds
8
ounces.
Because
of
my
daughterâs
difficult
delivery,
it
took
her
four
weeks
to
be
able
to
get
out
of
bed.
It
took
longer
for
her
to
bond
with
her
son
and
it
was
more
difficult
to
breastfeed
because
of
the
pain
at
her
incision
site.
My
daughter
will
say
that
while
her
poor
experience
at
Evergreen
was
rooted
in
her
negative
interactions
with
Dr.
Stemmerman,
every
other
doctor,
nurse,
and
hospital
staff
member
was
kind
and
welcoming
during
her
labor.
She
is
so
glad
Stemmerman
wasnât
with
her
during
my
labor.
If
I
had
had
Dr.
Hyde
from
the
beginning,
her
experience
would
have
been
more
positive.
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