🚨🚨🚨🚨 Oasis is no longer a safe place for women. My friend was forced to strip down her clothes in front of security guards the other night and they wouldn't let her go until she did so. This is blatant harassment from the staff themselves. I used to pride oasis as a safe space for all, but this was and is still horrific. I don't know if it's the change in staff, management, or what. But we will not stand for this. I strongly discourage everyone from going to Oasis ever again. I would give 0 stars if I could. 🚨🚨🚨🚨 Edit in reply to Oasis' modified reply: The issue is not being walked to the changing rooms. My friend was leaving. The issue is that the security guards and the manager refused to turn around when she was changing, even when she was crying and begging them to do so. They continued to stare at her and force her to change (and get naked) in front of them. Please do not accuse this of being a false account of events. That is detrimental to victims who have come a long way to gain the courage to come forward. There was also an additional friend there who was completely sober the entire night and has confirmed the events of that night as well. I don't know if you were told what had happened and then decided to change the narrative, or if you were told something completely different. If you were told differently, then you should be looking into your own staff and figure out why they're hiding what they did. In your original reply, you said that you were launching a full investigation. I really hope that your investigation is more than just asking the staff involved from that night what happened, and then taking their word for it. That's not an investigation. That's turning a blind eye.

For a place that prides itself on equality and dignity, this place treats single men like craaap. All single men are good for is their money. If a man goes the wrong way up or down the stair men get yelled at while women are spoken to politely. I understand those who identify as women need more physical protection than the average person who identifies as male, but that doesn’t mean single men don’t need to be spoken too with respect. When I am there alone I feel like I am a criminal. When I am there with a female partner the staff are so pleasant. I don’t like spending my money here I honestly feel like I am being treated like an animal. Edited: Honestly, basic customer service skills go a long way. I don’t need to email you. Just train your staff to be polite and respectful. Not every situation needs to be met with hostility.

I’ve been here multiple times in the last 3 years, and I’ve always had a great time! Staff is friendly and always cleaning, and they’re always around to make sure people are following the rules and have what they need. Drinks are well portioned, crowd is always fun and a good time, and is very female focused in terms of comfort, which always makes me confident in going. I don’t ever go thinking I’m going to be pressured by someone to do things I don’t want to do. I’ve been alone, with partners, and to swing, or to just have a night out, and it’s been great each time! Obviously, I reduced how often I went during the pandemic, but when we went back for the first time this summer, was pleased to see memos and staff still taking Covid seriously.

Forced our group to change in front of a male security guard and management. Would not allow us to leave until we did so. They were blocking the doors of the change room and watching us. There was no option. We just wanted to leave without feeling violated. This is not a safe space. Do not come here. I am just so disappointed

Pretentious, that is "attempting to impress by affecting greater importance, talent, culture, etc., than is actually possessed."

A freeing, clothing optional space. That is safe and inclusive. I love the pool, the hot tub, sauna and the adult recreational activity spaces. My only qualm and it's a big one - PLEASE turn down the music a bit. Sometimes it is really hard to build the right vibe and atmosphere, and fleeing the pool and the first floor bc of the loud music is definitely a recurrence for me that I don't enjoy.

I went for the first time this week. I was meant to attend with a date, but after a last minute cancellation I decided to pluck up the courage and attend alone. My fears and nervousness disappeared the second I walked through the door! The first thing that will strike you about Oasis is their commitment to creating a safe space and how important consent is to them. When you enter for the first time, you are informed of the rules and must sign an agreement form. I love how stringent they are on the rules, and this continues through the club in their play areas. After being given a tour by one of their amazing hostesses (who checked in on me throughout the night to see how I was doing) and making friends with their incredible bar staff, I explored the club. Their facilities are amazing and just seem to go on forever. As mentioned by everyone, the highlights are definitely their pool/hot tub, but a mention should be given to their stage/event area which is comfortable and a whole bunch of fun thanks to their wonderful MC. I felt comfortable and safe throughout the club (as security and hostesses are everywhere), and the cleanliness was great too. I was also hugely pleased by the wide range of ages, body types and overall diversity of people attending the club I cannot wait to go again and am looking forward to exploring some of their different events. Thanks for a wonderful time Oasis!!

Can't say enough great things about Oasis! (We often talk about it in our podcast.) We enjoy the clothing-optional social and sexy, yet chilled spa-type of atmosphere. Sometimes we go there just to use the pool, hot-tub, sauna and to sunbathe nude, and other times, we specifically go to meet like-minded sexy people (although we still usually start in the pool -- it's super warm year round). No matter why we go, we love how inclusive it is, that every gender, orientation, age, you name it, is welcome, as long as they are respectful. The staff are always nearby and will back you up, if someone is out of line (as two women, we LOVE that!) The playrooms are upstairs and are clean with furniture that is perfectly designed. They are often restricted to couples or single males invited by a female or couple. Tips for newbies: They provide lockers. For drinks, a credit card and ID OR some cash left at the bar will allow you to start a tab (so you don't have to carry anything). You may want to subscribe to their newsletter or visit the website to see the theme of the day/night you are going. Some days are couples only/no single men times, some are younger crowd times. There are themes such as "sword play" (bi-men and friends), "DTF" (popular night - for women who seek multiple men), "First Taste" (for newbies) and many more! Things to bring: flip flops, maybe a cover up, lingerie or briefs (if you don't wish to walk around nude or in a towel), and your smile! Best Advice: Say "Hi" to everyone -- no need to be shy. This is a social place -- people want to chat, and you're likely to have some great conversations. If needed, a simply "no thank you" will suffice if someone invites you to something you are not interested in. Have fun! Tori and Soul

Part of me is happy they are closed. They used to be my fav spot to go. Yet when they changed after covid, it is ridiculous how they want to make up the loss from the men's pockets only even though men are the minority customers there and only allowed limited times and days. Instead of spreading it across the bigger portion of customers (women). Their new security is rude towards men, yet letting women in even without checking their vaccine. Very disappointing how they are dealing with the situation

Me and my partner went Friday for the newbies event, we ended up arriving late and missed the presentation but still had fun exploring and checking things out. Upon arrival we were greeted by a big bouncer who seemed very friendly. Next the individual who checked us in, I can't for the life of me remember their name but they were absolutely fantastic! I was feeling pretty nervous going in as I've never been to any place like this before but engaging with them totally put me at ease, they were super helpful and sweet and I loved how they reiterated it was a safe space and if anyone made us feel unsafe to let the staff know so it could be handled. An individual named swan I believe? showed us around and they were also extremely pleasant. Every staff we engaged with felt very genuine and I at no point felt uncomfortable or unsafe, everyone was so awesome and the whole lounge is absolutely beautiful. I would absolutely recommend the club to anyone interested in exploring! Thank you so much for the amazing experience and I hope to return if ever in the area again!

My wife and I went to Oasis over the weekend, both first time visitors. We really weren't sure what to expect but I have to say it was a blast. We came in from out of town and only ended up being there for maybe 2 hours, but they were absolutely unforgettable. We are already planning a return visit but with much better for knowledge of what to expect and plan for. The other patrons were friendly, helpful, very respectful of others and never once felt or saw anyone that wasn't completely comfortable. It was one of the healthiest environments I've been in. I absolutely need to recognize the staff as they were amazing (I'm terrible with names but the entire staff was seriously fantastic). Right from the person attending the door who read out the rules and got us checked in, the bartender who got us setup with the tab despite my incomprehension of what I needed (3 tries :) )to the wonderful person who took the time to give us a quick in person run down about the where's and how's beyond the simple reading of the rules to the people cleaning. The sanitary conditions of the club was fantastic regardless of the best efforts of the patrons. Definitely going to be a regular "date night" destination for us!

Usually I don’t write reviews too often but this place deserves one. I’ve been 3 times and each is a new and unique experience. The staff is very kind, helpful and respectful. So don’t be shy to ask that question on your mind. One of the top favourite things is the constant security, at a time when you are most vulnerable. It’s good to know there’s always someone around. Whether you are just looking for a quiet place to read a book by the pool, a trip to the sauna and hot tub or meeting new people. There’s something for everyone. However I was there last night and found that many people were respectful there were several solo men that weren’t. A smile is not an invitation for more. When I’ve already stated “I’m just relaxing”, “hanging out” or “no thank you”, that should be the end of it. These men were insistent on going to the 3rd floor, which I went up to on my own at times just to have a breather. Several solo men re-approached me asking for a chance, why or if I’m not into them. Just because someone wears bracelets of what they’re into doesn’t mean that they want to get with you or everyone. Take the no with grace and move on and respect their decision, no matter how the person says no anything other than a yes is a no. One of the solo men moved too close I moved away, before he then touched without asking and I had to walk away. Next time I will only wear the green and red bracelets maybe have a bit of a better experience. None of this is a reflection of the club itself or the staff rather the members that don’t respect people and the club rules.

My partner and I have been going to this place for about a year now and always have had good experiences. However last night, we were playing on the 3rd floor and I had a man touch me without my consent. We reported it right away to security and I am very satisfied with how they handled it. We also noticed that he was by himself and solo males are not allowed on the 3rd floor during that day, and he was talking to two other men who were also by themselves. We enjoy this place and would love to keep coming but we would like to see some more monitoring on the 3rd floor as I noticed too many solo men breaking rules and we did not feel comfortable.

Where do I begin, it’s all fabulous at this place. The staff are very helpful and clean all areas perfectly. They care, and are super fun. This environment truly is sex positive. Being a single lady new to the club visiting from out of town I was as comfortable as if I’d been always going there. Elegantly decorated, all amenities necessary were easily accessible, questions were readily answered. Open Mic was awesome thanks to the all inclusive welcoming vibes. The Dungeon was the perfect place to explore some new desires. I am 100% I would come back over and over again. Toronto LS community is Epic thanks. Hugs Tonsalove

Went with my partner to spice things up. There are always predat*rs approaching couple. Their one time asking policy is blatant lie. Security sucks. We were afraid so much that we did not even drink properly due to risk when we are high. Left place in 2 hours. Please improve security even for brown couples. Don't be biased

$115 entrance fee for couples. Super over priced considering the amenities that don’t work (jacuzzi jets broken), they ran out of towels?, crowding was an issue - couldn’t walk through the top floor without having to squeeze uncomfortably close to people and their exposed genitals, the space was very grimey, lacked hygiene measures and the first set of stairs had steps that were so small it was dangerous going up and down them. Also lots of little random steps/ledges all over the place in the dark posing a serious safety issue. Disappointing experience.

Great weekend crowd. Place is well maintained and cleaned at regular intervals. Your night will really depend on you and your partner’s mood as well as the environment that particular night. Come with an open mind and see your night transition into something extraordinary. Staff is super chill and diligent. No complaints for this place❤️

Lovely environment for sunbathing without risk of tan lines, and watching others do the same. You never know what you might see, or whom you might experience. The hot tub is a cozy alternative when it's too cold to lounge by the pool. Lots of interesting furniture inside as well to help you achieve interesting positions, alone or with a friend (or with a stranger)

I came with my male partner and he waited outside the bathroom to give me privacy because i’m a female. The bathrooms are all gender inclusive and we didn’t know this. One of the staff members insisted that he follow me into the bathroom and I thought that was really weird. Just because the bathrooms are gender inclusive doesn’t mean that he MUST come in with me. Some women still want their own privacy and safety. I think the staff could have minded their own business. I felt unsafe in that moment. The staff here are really weird.

I stopped thinking about decided to try to go the club for my first time and experience last night, and I was single . I gave three stars for a review. Amazing place, but I really enjoyed exploring to relax hot sauna,hot tub and bar beside flat tv room for first floor awhile I drank coke about one hour. I really annoyed to hate downstairs awhile I held up drink, carried my phone and another hand with my towel that I almost fell off to step down. I felt very quiet as single , and decided to leave the club for half hour. Have a nice day!

This is the only club I feel safe at. "Ironically, right?" Absolutely not. The experience starts when you step through the door. You get a rundown of rules and expectations and you're told you will be listened to if any issues come up (this is true). You can leave your cards with the bartender and they ask your preferred name to protect your privacy. You can even set "safe" people who can order without your supervision and the bartenders will remember you and act as if you're the only person in the building. The whole place is clean and well-maintained. I always feel dirty after using public bathrooms, but not here. Clean and always stocked with necessities. The staff walking around are friendly and open. You can literally ask them anything at any time and they always have the answer, and no matter how stupid you think your question is, they will never judge you and they will encourage your exploration. There's also security EVERYWHERE. It feels like no matter where I am, there is security staff reading body language and checking in on people. Overall, I have never had a bad experience here.

Even though my time was short, I really enjoyed this atmosphere. Fatima is my favorite person there. ❤️ In 3 hours I got a lot of action. Consent is the culture. I highly recommend women to visit this club As this is a safe and consenting environment. Both couples and Solo men are very respectful. I may visit again with a female friend or partner.

An acquaintance tried (many times) to persuade me to join him at this club. Last night, I felt somewhat nervous upon arrival however, later on I made some friends in the pool. My partner unfortunately, was accused of not obeying the consent rule therefore, had to be removed. I highly recommend Oasis if you like meeting new people. It sure was an exciting (first time) pleasant experience for me. The club facility is a clean, fun, relaxing including friendly place to hang out. You might even get hooked on regular monthly visits. You only live once! Cheers 🥂

To start with we visited on Sunday night, lots of single man out there which we didn't like it as they were all over the place.We have visited many places in Paris inc las chandelles, but to be honest this place too looked very promising, I guess we should had visited on couple nights,,had heard in other reviews that they are racist, it's all false no where they were like such a kinda. We had fun Only one complain that 100 dollars very very steep.

The first time I visited there (3 years ago) was the only place where I would have never dare myself to go by myself until a friend (male) introduce me to the place and now I adore the place and it was the first place where I felted more comfortable being naked and in front of others, and I was more comfortable in there rather than being alone with an "x" person (idkw but I feel it that way). The only thing I would say is that I understand that men have to spend more money for entry but economy these days is hard and is hard for my friend (male) to come here because of it :'C I wish this place could do something about this. Also my friend works in the weekend so couple time is hard for him to come by due to work schedules T,T and so other friends (mixed) too

I never write reviews like this but Oasis has such a special place in my heart so I thought I’d share my experiences here :) I’ve been coming here both by myself/with my partner since 2021 and I/we have always had such a great time + felt super safe and comfortable whenever we’ve visited You can really feel how much of a pleasure positive environment it is and they’re really big on consent (as any club should be ofc) The people we’ve met at Oasis have been some of the friendliest, most open minded people from all walks of life. No expectations of anything. And as a queer nb couple we’ve always felt safe and welcomed here The staff are also super friendly and welcoming. Very approachable when we’ve had any questions or needed assistance. And I always see cleaners everywhere keeping the place tidy and stocking up fresh towels The heated pool is awesome and open year round, so it really helps with the winter blues in the cold months but is also supeeeerrrrr refreshing on those hot summer days! You can also bring food into the club as well so we love having our little poolside charcuterie or sushi days in the summertime :) I also love that there’s showers for rinsing off (and more 😈) at the end of the night. The smoking patio is super cute with lots of seating and I looooove those soft fleece robes that they provide by the door. Just make sure you bring flip flops in the winter time because your feet with freeeeeze out there even with the heating lamp omg 😂 They’ve got a lot of drink options but their “sex in the pool” cocktail is definitely a personal favourite! And I LOVE that there’s a water station with cups at the bar so there’s no need to wait in line when it gets busy throughout the night (which is one of my biggest bar pet peeves) Overall I highly recommend anyone check it out at least once! They’ve got a lot of cool events depending on what your vibe is, but my partner and I personally really like Naked Karaoke and the weekend events in particular Xoxo

This is a very cool and relaxing place, it's nice being in a body positive environment. It's a nice break from the pressure and expectations of society's views regarding bodies and sex. It was a very fun experience. The manager was very friendly and the place has a safe and fun atmosphere. Its a shame I live so far away, because I'd love to frequent this place more.

Me and my partner always have a good time at Oasis which is why I am giving it a 5 star. But there is a reason after so many years of visiting I decided now to leave a review. Last night February 11th I felt very uncomfortable with the way the female bartender downstairs bar was treating guests. She was very rude and bossy if it was just our one interaction with us I wouldn't mind too much but she was treating everyone all throughout the night terrible. The male bartender working alongside was amazing he treated everyone amazing. Please do something about this because this really affects our visit especially when we pay $100 to treat ourselves once in a while.

I wish they had something in the pool area volleyball net something to interact with other people. Would be nice. At 11pm the music turns off. The atmosphere gets really weird. The pool area is the big reason why I come here, but nothing gos on, it's just constantly quiet with the guys in the corner staring, nothing to break the ice. I was hoping in the summer, they would have more fun activities around or in the pool area. Beside that it's not bad but it's not the best either.

I was just here on a first time visit. I was with my lady for my birthday this past weekend. We had a blast. It was very comfortable and we played in many different areas of the building. I would definitely recommend and will likely be back soon.

Last night was my 1st time for a few things. Going out dressed up, and attending Oasis Aqualounge. From the time I stepped into the facility, I was warmly welcomed by the staff attending the front counter. I certainly was overdressed for the occasion lol but I had many compliments from strangers about my thigh high boots and how sexy I looked. Thanks everyone. You made this woman feel special ;) Nikki

One of our favourite date night spots...25 years happily married. Safe fun atmosphere and no pressure at all.

Had a fantastic first visit back (it had been many years)- The new (to me) staff were so welcoming, the floor staff were on the ball giving tours to newcomers and making them feel comfortable- also the renovations are absolutely immaculate! The photos are beautiful but can't hold a candle to how great the pool and deck are in person. So many upgrades and growth over the years! I'll definitely be visiting more frequently- thank you for maintaining this magical space, there really is nowhere else like it. ❤️⛱️

I attended for the first time last night. Unbelievable experience! One of the most liberating, positive experiences I believe I’ve had. Being in my mid 40s and having things not look the way they once did, I was intimidated at first. Fast forward 5 minutes into my visit and all of my inhibitions were gone. Wonderful place!

Went there last night for the very first time. Was very welcoming! Charlie the bartender is fantastic. At first I was a little nervous but came out of my shell after feeling the vibe. Everyone’s very accepting and the staff is great. I have 0 issues. I definitely recommend if you’re looking for a whole new experience or just a place to chill. I’m glad I stopped in on my vacation. I’m definitely coming back!

Me and the wife are from out of town and had to check this place out first hand . All in all a great experience . Got a quick tour around by Veronica ( I believe ), told the rules and given a free drink card for each of us . We thoroughly enjoyed the different themed rooms , the outdoor heated pool in January is super awesome . Didn’t find too many pushy single males most are fairly respectful will likely be back again . Thanks for a great time !!! On a side note though the drinks are way too expensive and when I was waiting for my wife to get her towel on upstairs I had a staff member approach and ask “ are you up here with your partner “ . This same staff member, had just served us downstairs 5 minutes prior . Was kind of off putting for me a bit . I know they have rules and I like that they are enforced but also common sense should come in as well . So tips for newcomers , pre drink or you’re in for an expensive night and stand beside your partner all night . Won’t deter us from going back but just putting out the only two downsides to our night .

this place has changed since covid.... themed nights have be removed. the cost just to get in is unfair to men period and the people? wow... clique based. try and talk to other patrons, I don't know you that's my purse.... the staff are great. friendly and really know how to make people feel comfy. but now it's all the same 3 events all month every month. so the cost and the events like it or not are the reason for the decline in fun and people. addendum; if the issue is inflationary why not charge woman 25 30 dollars and ease the burden on the men? you know some kind of resemblance of EQUALITY. just a thought

Went for the first time, outstanding staff, wonderful vibes and music. Everything was super clean all the facilities were fabulous ❤️ Thanks for the awesome experience

A great place to meet like-minded and progressive people. No judgment. I am changing my review to two stars because of the virtual environment. I reported that there is an individual who is harrassing me online, and the club is doing nothing. The quality of the virtual events is poor, and I also noticed that there is a favoritism between the regulars and non-regulars.

An extremely friendly and open experience. The manager that greeted myself and my partner was very respectful and relaxed as she went through the rules and expected behavior. Everything was very clean and everyone was very respectful. We are probably going to make Oasis a regular destination for us.

I love this place literally an Oasis for adults a place where some of your dreams can potentially come true, the staff is very friendly and accommodating they make sure that every single person inside feels safe and comfortable. The only advice I have for management is to try and be more selective with who comes inside I'm sorry to say but some guys shouldn't be allowed near a female

Nice place, great guests, but the receptionist's behavior is horrible—rude, dominant, and interrogating at first. Later, she constantly followed me, made nasty comments, until she switched positions when the club got crowded.

Decided to head to the club last night, drove from Peterborough. When I arrived I was told tickets must be purchased online. My phone died, so I had to drive to convenience store, and get a charger, didn't have one. Came back, tried to purchase tickets, and the website wouldn't accept my card. Called my bank, and they said there's no issues with my transactions. Absolutely a waste of time, my whole Saturday night. Never had a problem before this.

I’ve been coming here consistently for the past 2 weeks and the experience has been great! The staff are friendly, the bartender Charlie is awesome, the people are all very friendly, non judgemental and as a women, I feel very safe knowing security is just a few steps away. I was weary of coming here the first time because I didn’t know what to expect but I’m glad I made the decision to go because this place is now my go to spot to hang out and socialize! Only thing I wish is that the music didn’t stop at 11pm. Maybe play the music much quieter? The silence can be loud at night in the pool area. Also should considering hiring a DJ sometimes to liven up people’s spirits at night. Other than that I’d highly recommend this place :)

I love it here, it's so relaxing and clean.

Absolutely amazing, me and my gf visited here many times and always had a great time. Staff was amazing especially the bar tender with the long moustache, (super professional and very respectful for the way he serves drinks) and the security guard always made us feel very safe and comfortable! 11/10 experience, pool was amazing too!

Terrible experience here

Loved it! Stellar place. Especially the outside pool

When's your singles nights on

Great time! A must go. Felt so comfortable there and the staff are great! So much fun with other people and the pool was so much fun. Everyone felt welcome and no judging. We will return for sure.

Absolutely wonderful heated pool. The club is in a very old very large house with absolutely beautiful architecture. There are many things to see there, take the time and look around at the house it is stunning. Everyone is very friendly and welcoming.

Staff was nice and friendly, but lower your expectations for everything else. There were not enough females there and if there was a female, she was already interested in someone or she was surrounded by 5 other guys. Great place to talk and listen to people's stories and find help to move your couch.

Staff are always super chill! I looove this place so much as it prioritises the safety of the visitors. It’s such a safe inclusive space for queer people, which is hard to come by!! If you’re queer and looking to meet likeminded people this is the place for you. Also I love that men are charged more lol

My visits to the Oasis Aqualounge throughout the summer were filled with sweet drinks, relaxation, and fun. The staff are friendly, enthusiastic, and courteous to guests. I will never get tired of their hot tub and dry sauna. Congratulations on acquiring another patron to the club, I'm going to keep coming back here!

I have recommended this place to my friends. That speaks for itself. The employees strive a lot to keep the standards at best. Love you all. Was there on the last Sunday and I have thoroughly enjoyed every moment. Was the last guy to walk out lol.