1/5 Amy 6 months ago on Google ā¢ 1 review
I
waited
4
years
to
be
under
the
Sutherland,
after
a
trainee,
a
psychologist
and
a
therapist
that
didnāt
work
out
I
was
discharged,
Iām
the
first
person
to
ever
ask
to
change
therapist
after
3
times,
itās
unheard
of
so
they
wouldnāt
let
me
and
discharged
me.
Had
a
horrendous
assessment
there,
had
3
assessments
all
together,
didnāt
get
in,
what
got
me
in
was
going
to
a
private
psychiatrist
who
contacted
them
then
I
was
under
them.
The
trainee
was
reading
off
a
PowerPoint,
when
I
speak
about
stuff
her
response
didnāt
make
any
sense
as
in
she
didnāt
understand
me,
it
made
me
feel
uncomfortable
she
was
the
same
age
as
me.
The
coping
skills
werenāt
correlating
with
what
I
was
feeling
at
the
time,
they
were
for
when
you
have
intense
emotions
so
dunk
your
head
in
cold
water
type
thing,
I
was
dissociated
and
emotionally
numb.
The
psychologist
was
emotionless
and
not
very
responsive,
felt
like
opening
up
to
a
brick
wall,
she
also
seemed
uptight.
A
response
she
did
have
once
was
a
very
poor
response
from
me
saying
something
that
falls
under
cptsd,
itās
like
it
was
a
personal
response.
She
had
no
empathy
and
her
fake
smile
made
me
uncomfortable.
The
therapist
used
humour
and
fake
friendliness
at
first
as
a
cheap
way
to
make
me
trust
him,
multiple
times
he
used
self
deprecating
humour
towards
himself
which
I
thought
was
quite
odd.
He
also
seemed
to
be
lacking
empathy
and
compassion.
When
I
said
I
didnāt
feel
like
it
was
a
safe
space
I
was
told
I
should
think
about
how
I
can
make
it
a
safe
space.
He
said
I
couldnāt
have
the
goal
of
being
content
because
it
canāt
be
measured.
I
said
another
goal
of
being
able
to
feel
and
express
anger
and
sadness
he
said
feeling
those
arenāt
going
to
do
you
any
favours,
to
me
repressing
them
wonāt
do
me
any
favours.
He
came
out
with
so
much
rubbish.
In
my
opinion
a
therapist
has
to
figure
how
to
make
the
person
feel
safe,
validated,
feel
better
and
offer
support,
thatās
the
foundation.
Itās
important
for
them
to
be
empathetic
and
compassionate
so
you
can
feel
like
youāre
in
a
safe
and
trusting
space
to
open
up.
The
Sutherland
centre
does
not
offer
this,
theyāre
clueless
and
have
no
empathy,
at
the
end
of
the
day
they
still
get
paid,
they
get
paid
for
doing
a
terrible
job
and
if
you
raise
valid
issues
then
youāre
the
problem
because
youāre
the
difficult
mentally
ill
person
and
theyāre
the
one
with
the
degree.
The
system
is
broken
and
having
that
piece
of
paper
doesnāt
mean
anything.
I
wish
there
was
a
support
group
for
people
who
have
experienced
the
hell
that
is
the
Sutherland
centre.
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