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My
husband
was
admitted
to
the
ICU
and
general
ward
for
emergency
surgery.
Some
nurses
are
good,
but
basically
I
feel
that
many
of
them
are
not
very
amiable.
Although
it
is
written
that
the
visit
of
a
small
child
is
refrained,
even
in
this
situation,
the
father
is
angry
even
at
the
visit
of
the
sixth
grade
and
is
urged
to
return
early.
Only
one
key
person
must
be
selected
in
the
family,
and
only
the
key
person
can
talk
to
the
teacher
and
then
tell
the
rest
of
the
family.
I
think
this
is
to
prevent
family
members
from
forgetting
to
talk,
but
other
than
the
key
person
and
the
person
himself,
even
his
wife
does
not
tell
us
about
the
progress
or
rehabilitation
from
the
nurse.
What
do
you
want
to
know
with
a
suspicious
look
to
the
nurse
when
you
try
to
ask
even
if
you
talk
about
the
circumstances
where
you
can
not
contact
the
key
person?
It
is
said
that.
Every
time
I
talked
to
the
nurses,
I
kept
being
told
if
there
was
any
communication
between
the
nurses,
and
I
was
always
uncomfortable
and
depressed
as
to
what
was
wrong
with
the
family
living
with
me
who
wanted
to
listen
to
the
follow-up.
Even
if
I
ask
the
ICU
nurse
to
confirm
that
there
is
no
notification
about
the
insertion,
the
nurse
in
the
general
ward
will
tell
me
that
I
can't
drink
it
yet.
For
that
reason,
you
will
be
instructed
administratively
to
purchase
what
is
not
enough
at
the
shop
below.
It
was
as
if
the
family
had
to
do
what
they
were
told
to
do
according
to
the
rules
of
the
hospital.
I
think
that
people
involved
in
medical
care
are
having
a
lot
of
trouble,
but
I
think
that
hospitalization
is
a
place
where
not
only
the
patient
himself
but
also
various
family
circumstances
including
those
around
him
are
exposed.
I
think
you
are
busy,
but
I
don't
think
that
providing
medical
care
is
just
a
matter
of
surgery
and
nursing
with
technology.
I
think
it
is
important
to
follow
the
policies
and
rules
of
the
hospital,
but
I
think
it
is
important
to
be
a
little
more
flexible
in
dealing
with
patients
and
their
families.
(Original)
旦那が緊急手術でICUや一般病棟に入院しました。
看護師には良い方もいますが、基本的にはきつめの愛想のない方が多いように感じました。
小さい子の面会は遠慮と書いてありますが、父親がこの状況でも小学6年の面会すら怒られ早く帰るよう促されます。
キーパーソンを家族の中で1人だけ決めなければならず、キーパーソンだけが先生と話を聞けてその後全てを他の家族に伝えます。家族によっての話忘れなどを防ぐためだとは思いますが、キーパーソンと本人以外はたとえ妻でも看護師から経過やリハビリについても教えてくれません。キーパーソンとは連絡が取れない事情を話しても聞こうとすると看護師に怪訝な顔で何を知りたいんですか?と言われます。看護師同士の申し送りがないのか、看護師と話すたびに何人にも言われ続け、今後も一緒に暮らす家族が経過観察を聞きたがって何が悪いのかと終始不愉快で気分が落ちこみました。
差し入れについても申し送りがないのか、ICUの看護師に聞いて確認したものでも一般病棟の看護師にはまだ飲めないと言われたりします。
その割には足りないものを下の売店で購入してくるよう事務的に指示されたりします。
まるで家族は、病院の決まりに従って言われたことをすればいいといった対応でした。
医療に携わる方は大変なご苦労をされていると思いますが、入院と言うのは患者本人だけでなく、その回りも含めて様々な家庭の事情が露呈する場でもあると思います。
お忙しいとは思いますが、医療提供と言うのは、ただ技術で手術、看護するだけ良いとは思いません。病院の方針や決まりを守ることも大事だとは思いますが、患者やその家族に対してもう少し柔軟な対応を心がけることが大切だと思います。
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