4/5 Sara W. 9 months ago on Google
My
grandma,
the
rock
of
our
family,
was
diagnosed
with
stage
4
breast
cancer
in
2011,
going
into
remission
twice.
Recently,
she
had
been
to
2
different
hospitals
due
to
sudden
weakness,
immobility,
and
extreme
confusion.
The
1st
hospital
dx’ed
bad
arthritis.The
2nd
hospital..
UTI.
Mother’s
Day
2023
she
was
worse,
so
non-emergency
helped
get
grandma
into
the
car
because
she
was
so
weak
&
we
drove
her
an
hour
to
get
to
St
Pete’s.
Upon
arrival-
we
were
greeted
with
mixed
experiences.
The
hospital
staff
in
the
ED
weren’t
happy
they
had
to
help
transfer
her
from
the
car.
A
blonde
nurse
called
us‘ridiculous’
&
said
we
should
have
just
called
911
&
had
her
taken
to
our
local
hospital
(the
one
we
have
had
multiple
bad/life
threatening
experiences
with).
By
contrast,
the
doctor
who
assessed
her
was
phenomenal-
jumping
in
to
help
lift
her
up
onto
a
bed.
The
relief
to
actually
feel
like
someone
was
listening
to
us
finally
&
cared
was
palpable.
He
asked
if
my
grandma’s
cancer
had
metastasized
to
her
brain
&
ordered
a
scan-
soon
enough,
we
had
our
answers.
The
cancer
was
all
over
her
brain.
The
oncologist
came
and
spoke
with
us
&
he
was
so
gentle
with
her.
I
am
forever
grateful
to
those
2
doctors,
and
many
of
the
nurses
and
staff
for
the
care
they
took
with
my
grandmother
in
her
final
days.
The
complaints:
I
tried
to
ask
that
same
blonde
nurse
when
she
could
have
water
as
she
had
been
sitting
there
for
hours
&
they
were
holding
liquids.
That
delightful
nurse
told
me
they
had
*actual
emergencies*
going
on,
&
they
would
get
to
us
when
they
got
to
us.
I
could
see
they
were
busy.
I
tried
hard
to
put
myself
in
her
shoes,
but
my
grandma
didn’t
understand
why
she
was
suffering-
it
was
a
hot
day,
she
had
to
keep
her
mask
on,
and
her
mouth
was
so
dry-
it
was
difficult.
By
evening
(we
had
arrived
that
morning)
there
was
still
no
water.
I
had
been
using
her
call
light
4-5
times
for
an
hour
asking
them
when
someone
could
come
and
assess
her.
They
were
snapping
at
us
and/or
hanging
up
on
us
immediately
without
asking
what
we
wanted,
so
I
went
out
physically
to
the
desk
to
ask
the
lady
who
had
replaced
the
blonde
nurse
if
they
at
least
had
any
sponges
I
could
use
to
get
my
grandmas
mouth
wet.
The
lady
at
the
desk
determinedly
did
not
look
up
at
me
as
I
stood
directly
in
front
of
her.
I
understand
busy.
I
waited,
finally
asking,
“Uhm,
excuse
me?”
Still
not
looking
up
at
me,
she
then
turns
away
from
me.
Louder,
I
repeated,
“EXCUSE
ME?!!”
Finally
she
looks
at
me
and
snaps,
“You
NEED
TO
USE
YOUR
CALL
LIGHT!”
Bless
their
hearts,
I
almost
lost
my
mind
at
that
point.
I
told
her
pointedly
I
had
been
using
the
call
light
for
an
hour.
I
just
needed
to
locate
a
sponge
to
get
my
grandma’s
mouth
wet,
since
she
couldn’t
have
water
yet
&
I
knew
they
were
busy.
She
told
me
she
couldn’t
help
me
until
she
looked
at
my
grandmas
chart
&
she
wasnt
going
to
stop
what
she
was
doing
to
do
that.
I
finally
used
paper
towels
&
soaked
them
in
the
sink
just
so
I
could
dab
my
grandma’s
mouth
and
moisten
her
tongue.
My
grandma
didn’t
understand
what
was
going
on,
we
had
just
been
told
she
had
maybe
only
weeks
left
to
live,
&
she
was
in
severe
pain.
I
understood
these
people
were
too
busy
to
care
or
show
her
compassion.
The
rest
of
the
staff
beyond
those
2
were
amazing.
I’m
grateful
for
the
care
they
took
of
my
grandmother
in
her
final
days.
One
last
note,
Dr.
Sui
has
been
treating
my
grandma’s
cancer
since
she
was
diagnosed.
She
really
loved
him
&
could
never
say
enough
good
things
about
him.
Because
of
him
we
had
many
more
years
with
her
than
we
might
have
had.
So
much
life
was
packed
into
those
years.
My
grandma
lived
to
see
14
more
of
her
great
grandchildren
born
and
for
those
kids
to
experience
how
amazing
it
was
to
be
loved
by
her.
So
thank
you,
Dr.
Sui.
You
don’t
know
what
you
did
for
our
family,
but
we
do
and
we
will
never
forget
you
as
long
as
we
live.
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