1/5 Jamie T. 3 years ago on Google
My
wife
and
I
were
grossly
mistreated
by
Maternal
Fetal
medicine
and
I
hope
that
no
other
couple
has
to
go
through
what
we
did.
When
we
went
in
for
a
routine
scan
at
17
weeks
we
were
told
that
they
could
not
find
a
heartbeat.
Our
doctor,
Dr
Mission,
then
came
in
and
told
us
that
we
would
not
be
able
to
pass
the
baby
at
home,
so
he
would
call
us
the
next
day
with
further
instructions.
We
were
sent
home
confused
and
heartbroken,
with
no
aftercare
instructions,
no
idea
of
what
would
happen
next.
He
never
called
us.
There
was
no
followup.
We
ended
up
calling
MFM
the
next
afternoon
when
my
wife
started
having
contractions,
and
they
told
us
that
we
would
have
to
wait
5
days
before
scheduling
a
D&E
or
that
they
could
refer
us
to
an
abortion
clinic.
This
felt
incredibly
insensitive
and
horrific
to
hear.
They
continued
to
tell
us
that
we
could
go
to
the
ER
if
my
wife
was
bleeding
through
more
than
1
pad
per
hour,
but
otherwise
to
stick
it
out
and
wait
the
5
days
until
we
could
be
scheduled.
That
evening,
my
wife
went
into
active
labor,
and
birthed
our
baby
at
home
in
our
bathroom.
She
then
began
hemorrhaging
and
we
had
to
rush
to
the
emergency
room
where
she
laid
there
for
hours
with
no
one
checking
her.
They
asked
for
me
to
go
back
to
our
home
and
bring
back
the
body
of
our
baby
to
the
hospital,
where
they
took
her
away
in
a
biohazard
bag.
They
never
gave
us
our
rights
as
parents
to
getting
her
remains.
We
spent
a
total
of
12
hours
in
the
ER,
my
wife
underwent
surgery,
and
we
were
finally
sent
home.
No
one
from
MFM
ever
checked
in
on
us
or
followed
up.
We
finally
asked
for
an
appointment
with
Dr
Mission,
to
try
and
get
some
answers
about
why
we
had
a
second
trimester
miscarriage
when
everything
was
healthy
and
normal
with
our
baby.
He
continued
to
tell
us
that
the
test
results
were
slow
to
come
back
and
he
didn't
know.
Once
we
found
out
through
our
various
pregnancy
loss
groups
that
delivering
at
home
is
common,
we
asked
him
why
he
told
us
that
we
wouldn't
be
able
to
pass
the
baby
at
home
and
why
he
didn't
tell
us
that
we
had
rights
to
getting
our
baby's
remains
back.
He
refused
to
answer
that
question.
We
asked
for
more
testing
so
that
we
could
start
preparing
to
try
again,
and
he
told
us
that
we
would
order
tests
for
my
wife
but
when
we
called
to
make
the
appointments,
the
lab
told
us
that
the
orders
were
never
sent.
When
we
followed
up
again,
he
told
us
he
wanted
her
to
do
a
2
hour
fasting
glucose
test,
so
we
called
again
to
make
that
appointment,
and
they
said
that
those
tests
weren't
ordered--
but
a
different
glucose
test
was.
We
felt
so
lost
and
confused
as
to
why
we
had
no
test
results,
why
we
couldn't
make
appointments,
and
why
he
was
not
giving
us
accurate
information.
My
wife
was
finally
able
to
schedule
this
fasting
glucose
test
(which
only
tested
her
blood
sugars
levels)
and
he
came
back
and
told
my
wife
that
he
was
diagnosing
her
with
type
2
diabetes.
This
came
as
a
shock
to
both
of
us,
especially
because
he
didn't
test
her
A1C.
He
told
us
that
he
recommended
waiting
3
more
months
to
try
again,
even
though
we
had
already
waited
3
months.
He
suggested
that
she
start
insulin,
even
though
her
fasting
glucose
numbers
were
borderline,
at
best.
We
decided
to
have
a
second
opinion
and
have
her
fasting
numbers
tested
again,
as
well
as
her
A1C.
Our
second
opinion
showed
that
she
did
not
have
diabetes,
and
was
not
even
in
the
pre-diabetic
category.
The
fact
that
he
wanted
to
put
my
wife
on
insulin
based
off
of
one
test,
without
checking
her
A1C
is
reckless
and
dangerous.
Ultimately,
we
felt
incredibly
mistreated
and
dismissed
regularly
by
MFM.
We
are
an
LGBTQ
couple
and
we
were
told
that
this
would
be
the
best
place
for
us--
that
we
would
receive
care
with
respect
and
empathy.
Our
experience
couldn't
have
been
farther
from
that
truth.
We
were
consistently
made
to
feel
like
we
were
asking
for
too
much,
and
every
medical
professional
that
worked
there
gave
us
contradictory
information.
They
added
to
the
trauma
of
losing
our
baby
and
treated
us
with
such
disrespect.
The
added
misdiagnosis
was
the
icing
on
the
cake.
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