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My
name
is
Anca,
I
am
47
years
old,
and
3.5
years
ago
I
found
out
on
an
ultrasound
that
I
have
breast
cancer.
It
doesn't
make
sense
to
tell
how
I
felt,
how
much
advice
I
received
and
how
many
things
I
thought
about.
I
knew
I
had
to
move
fast
and
that
my
decision
could
make
the
difference
between
life
and
death.
The
decision
was
where
(most
advised
me
to
operate
abroad,
Turkey,
Austria,
France)
and
who
operated
on
me.
The
first
thing
I
did
was
make
an
emergency
appointment
with
Mr.
professor
Alexandru
Blidaru
(I
think
it
is
the
first
thing
that
most
people
think
of
in
a
similar
situation
considering
the
professionalism
and
experience
that
are
indisputable).
He
recommended
the
operation
to
me
as
soon
as
possible,
it
was
rough,
distant
and
left
me
4-5
days
for
the
decision.
I
had
found
out
that
I
had
cancer
for
only
3
days
and
I
felt
I
had
to
explore
all
the
options.
It
was
December,
the
holidays
were
coming,
so
I
scheduled
for
surgery
on
January
17,
the
first
place
available,
although
I
wasn't
convinced
I
would.
I
made
an
appointment
at
the
airport,
we
were
going
on
vacation
for
3
weeks
in
Asia.
I
would
have
canceled
the
holiday
but
I
didn't
see
the
point
in
staying
home
doing
nothing
(everyone
goes
on
vacation),
telling
the
kids
what
my
problem
is
and
spending
the
worst
holidays.
I
had
an
incredible
vacation
(I
think
I
thought
it
might
be
the
last),
I
relaxed
and
I
understood
that
I
don't
want
to
go
anywhere,
I
want
to
have
surgery
in
the
country
for
the
best.
Everything
that
followed
was
far
beyond
my
expectations,
I
came
across
a
professional
team,
very
well
organized,
I
received
answers
to
all
the
questions
and
I
always
knew
what
was
coming
and
what
my
options
were.
I
met
another
side
of
Professor
Blidaru,
warm,
friendly,
joking
and
I
understood
that
as
we,
the
patients
choose
our
doctor
and
he
makes
a
sort,
there
are
only
those
who
cope
better
with
stress
and
who
understand
that
his
time
is
limited
and
optimization
means
more
patients
it
can
help.
I
did
not
expect
to
be
called
to
the
control
dance
after
the
operation
(in
the
first
year
at
3
months
and
then
at
6
months).
I
understood
that
the
operation
is
only
a
part
of
solving
the
problem
and
the
decisions
for
treatment,
prevention
and
follow-up
are
also
extremely
important.
Fortunately,
my
decision
in
December
2016
to
be
operated
on
by
Mr.
Professor
Blidaru
was
the
best,
along
the
way
he
won
my
100%
trust
and
now
I
just
have
to
follow
his
advice.
I
had
a
second
shock
in
August,
last
year,
when
at
a
routine
check-up
(I
had
all
the
perfect
tests,
I
felt
very
good,
I
did
a
lot
of
sports)
he
recommended
a
second
operation,
total
hysterectomy
with
bilateral
annexectomy,
in
preventive
purpose.
I
had
surgery
on
October
15,
and
I
found
out
later,
from
the
histopathological
result,
that
I
would
soon
have
to
have
the
operation
in
an
emergency.
It
is
clear
that
it
is
not
a
matter
of
coincidence,
professionalism
and
experience
were
what
determined
him
to
make
this
recommendation.
Cancer
is
a
complex
disease
and
it
is
extremely
important
to
have
someone
to
follow
you,
to
guide
you,
to
tell
you
what
to
do.
Unforeseen
things
appear,
you
have
questions
and
then
the
psychic
comfort
of
having
someone
to
answer
your
questions
in
a
timely
manner
is
extremely
important.
In
the
3.5
years
I
collaborated
with
3
assistants
from
the
teacher's
team,
Emilia
Mereanu,
Luminita
Fulgeanu
and
Elena
Coman.
Thank
you
very
much
for
your
patience
and
time.
I
am
convinced
that
I
asked
unnecessary
questions
but
I
never
felt
bothered.
Many
thanks
to
the
whole
team,
to
the
people
whose
names
I
don't
know!
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Ma
numesc
Anca,
am
47
ani,
si
in
urma
cu
3.5
ani
am
aflat
la
o
ecografie
ca
am
cancer
de
san.
Nu
are
sens
sa
povestesc
ce
am
simtit,
cate
sfaturi
am
primit
si
la
cate
lucruri
m-am
gandit.
Stiam
ca
trebuie
sa
ma
misc
repede
si
ca
decizia
mea
poate
face
diferenta
intre
viata
si
moarte.
Decizia
era
unde
(majoritarea
ma
sfatuiau
sa
ma
operez
in
strainatate,
Turcia,
Austria,
Franta)
si
cine
ma
opereaza.
Primul
lucru
pe
care
l-am
facut
a
fost
sa
ma
programez
de
urgenta
la
dl.
profesor
Alexandru
Blidaru
(cred
ca
este
primul
lucru
la
care
se
gandesc
cele
mai
multe
intr-o
situatie
similara
tinand
cont
de
profesionalismul
si
experienta
care
sunt
incontestabile).
Mi-a
recomandat
operatia
cat
de
repede
posibil,
a
fost
dur,
distant
si
mi-a
lasat
4-5
zile
la
dispozitie
pentru
decizie.
Aflasem
ca
am
cancer
de
doar
3
zile
si
simteam
ca
trebuie
sa
explorez
toate
variantele.
Era
decembrie,
veneau
sarbatorile
asa
ca
m-am
programat
pentru
operatie
pe
17
ianuarie,
primul
loc
disponibil,
desi
nu
eram
convinsa
ca
asta
voi
face.
M-am
programat
din
aeroport,
plecam
in
vacanta
pentru
3
saptamani
in
Asia.
As
fi
anulat
vacanta
dar
nu
vedeam
sensul
sa
stau
acasa
fara
sa
fac
nimic
(toata
lumea
intra
in
vacanta),
sa
le
spun
copiilor
ce
problema
am
si
sa
petrec
cele
mai
urate
sarbatori.
Am
avut
o
vacanta
incredibila
(cred
ca
m-am
gandit
ca
ar
putea
fi
ultima),
m-am
relaxat
si
am
inteles
ca
nu
vreau
sa
plec
nicaieri,
vreau
sa
ma
operez
in
tara
la
cel
mai
bun.
Tot
ce
a
urmat
a
fost
cu
mult
peste
asteptarile
mele,
am
dat
peste
o
echipa
profesionista,
foarte
bine
organizata,
primeam
raspunsuri
la
toate
intrebarile
si
stiam
tot
timpul
ce
urmeaza
si
care
sunt
optiunile
mele.
Am
cunoscut
o
alta
latura
a
dlui
profesor
Blidaru,
cald,
prietenos,
glumet
si
am
inteles
ca
asa
cum
noi,
pacientii
ne
alegem
doctorul
si
el
face
o
triere,
raman
doar
cei
care
fac
fata
mai
bine
stresului
si
care
inteleg
ca
timpul
lui
este
limitat
si
optimizarea
inseamna
mai
multi
pacienti
pe
care
ii
poate
ajuta.
Nu
m-am
asteptat
ca
dupa
operatie
sa
mai
fiu
chemata
la
dansul
la
control
(in
primul
an
la
3
luni
iar
dupa,
la
6
luni).
Am
inteles
ca
operatia
este
doar
o
parte
din
rezolvarea
problemei
si
extrem
de
importante
sunt
si
deciziile
pentru
tratament,
preventie
si
urmarire.
Din
fericire
decizia
mea
din
decembrie
2016
de
a
fi
operata
de
dl.
profesor
Blidaru
a
fost
cea
mai
buna,
pe
parcurs
mi-a
castigat
increderea
100%
si
acum
nu
trebuie
decat
sa-i
urmez
sfaturile.
Un
al
doilea
soc
l-am
avut
in
august,
anul
trecut,
cand
la
un
control
de
rutina
(aveam
toate
analizele
perfecte,
ma
simteam
foarte
bine,
faceam
mult
sport)
mi-a
recomandat
o
a
doua
operatie,
histerectomie
totala
cu
anexectomie
bilaterala,
in
scop
preventiv.
M-am
operat
pe
15
octombrie,
si
am
aflat
ulterior,
din
rezultatul
histopatologic,
ca
as
fi
ajuns
curand
sa
fac
operatia
in
regim
de
urgenta.
Este
clar
ca
nu
este
vorba
de
coincidenta,
profesionalismul
si
experienta
au
fost
cele
care
l-au
determinat
sa-mi
faca
aceasta
recomandare.
Cancerul
este
o
boala
complexa
si
este
extrem
de
important
sa
ai
pe
cineva
care
sa
te
urmareasca,
sa
te
indrume,
sa-ti
spuna
ce
ai
de
facut.
Apar
lucruri
neprevazute,
ai
intrebari
si
atunci
confortul
psihic
ca
are
cine
sa-ti
raspunda
in
timp
util
la
intrebari
este
extrem
de
important.
In
cei
3.5
ani
am
colaborat
cu
3
asistente
din
echipa
dlui
profesor,
Emilia
Mereanu,
Luminita
Fulgeanu
si
Elena
Coman.
Le
multumesc
foarte
mult
pentru
rabdarea
si
timpul
acordat.
Sunt
convinsa
ca
am
pus
si
intrebari
inutile
dar
n-am
simtit
niciodata
ca
deranjez.
Multumesc
mult
intregii
echipe,
oamenilor
ale
caror
nume
nu
le
cunosc!
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